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Kristin writes honestly about life, love, growth, and the daily practice of joy. New posts every week.

Partnering in Crisis

March 12, 2026

Partnering in Crisis

A strong relationship is not just made of love and good communication. It is made of the ability to stay present when everything around you is breaking.

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Could It Be Love?

February 11, 2026

Could It Be Love?

Maybe love is something we have to relax into. Not chase, not earn, not prove ourselves worthy of. Maybe it is always already here, waiting for us to stop running.

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A Waylaid Playdate, a Coffee, and a Puppy

December 1, 2025

A Waylaid Playdate, a Coffee, and a Puppy

The reset I had begun in disappointment became a fulcrum for all that came next. Joy hides in the detours we resist taking.

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When the Fig Speaks

October 20, 2025

When the Fig Speaks

If we do not believe in our ability to meet our needs, when we think our well-being depends solely on those around us, we lose touch with our deepest power.

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Closing the Loop

October 12, 2025

Closing the Loop

This is the bridge of goodbye across hearts, from one plane to the next. Some goodbyes take years. Some take a lifetime. All of them are sacred.

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My Summer in a Tomato

October 5, 2025

My Summer in a Tomato

My summer in a tomato is about my whole garden, my whole life and all my dreams, concentrated into one bright, improbable, ordinary miracle.

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Where's the Joy in Internal Bleeding?

September 24, 2025

Where's the Joy in Internal Bleeding?

I found a place of infinite love within me to bridge these seemingly finite gaps. Even in the most frightening moments, joy was not absent. It was just quieter.

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Chokeberry's Gift

September 6, 2025

Chokeberry's Gift

Sometimes we are open to a gift when we understand its benefits. The most bitter things in life can carry the deepest medicine if we are willing to receive them.

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Dress for the Water, Not the Weather

August 31, 2025

Dress for the Water, Not the Weather

What I consider dangerous, you might find to be a cakewalk. This is not a flaw. It is the beautiful diversity of being human.

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Finding My Inner Elder

August 24, 2025

Finding My Inner Elder

Being an elder is a choice, a practice. It is easy to drift into anger, despair, and powerlessness. It takes deliberate intention to choose wisdom instead.

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2 Coffees, 2 Sisters, and a Sale at My Favorite Nursery

August 16, 2025

2 Coffees, 2 Sisters, and a Sale at My Favorite Nursery

All of life is a series of decisions. Carefully, we choose what we love most. And sometimes, if we are lucky, we choose it over and over again.

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The Biggest Berries Sometimes Fail Me

August 9, 2025

The Biggest Berries Sometimes Fail Me

The sweetness is in remembering that we can be here for all of it. The abundant harvest and the disappointing one. Both are part of the same love story.

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The Saints Preserve Me

August 2, 2025

The Saints Preserve Me

Big projects call for shifting my joy practice into high gear. When the stakes feel enormous, that is precisely when we most need to tend the inner life.

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Loving Your Neighbors ... Next Level

July 26, 2025

Loving Your Neighbors ... Next Level

Abundance is in community. Thank goodness that community, like gratitude, always stretches further than we think it can.

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My Grown-up PBJ

July 19, 2025

My Grown-up PBJ

What I love about life is how we often get to do over the parts we had no control over when we were young. Reclaiming joy sometimes looks like the simplest things.

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Visits with Crow

July 9, 2025

Visits with Crow

She flies to the rooftop over my outdoor office, shouting her appreciation for the peanuts. Relationship is everywhere if we are paying attention.

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With Wild Abundance

July 6, 2025

With Wild Abundance

We never grow in isolation. Our thoughts and words have runners, spreading underground, connecting us to things we did not even know we were planting.

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The Opening

June 14, 2025

The Opening

I think of the thousands of seeds we cast daily in our celebrations and grievances. Which ones are we tending? Which ones are we watering with our attention?

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3 Good Things

June 6, 2025

3 Good Things

Balancing the brain's negativity bias by celebrating 3 wins turned things around. This one small practice, done consistently, rewires how you see your entire life.

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Prime Time for a Whoopsie

May 31, 2025

Prime Time for a Whoopsie

I do not run out of opportunities to practice joy in my life. The mess, the mistakes, the detours. All of it is material. All of it is practice. All of it is the point.

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